Post by naiya11 on Feb 10, 2006 10:06:36 GMT -5
i have some differing opinions about a few things - mostly that lack of interest in sex, or other men (besides the mate) is a 'biological condition' for women, and that jealousy is a biological condition for women. We're not just creatures of biological drive. Especially women.
my opinions are based on personal experience with Taoist sexual practices. Women are natural aggressors sexually. but since the advent of the patriarchies (which we still live under), we've been commanded to be unnaturally chaste as an ideal (so we have deep guilt about being our own natural very *friendly* personty selves - even with our own partners), we've fallen out of sync with moontimes, and don't bleed together like we used to (prehistorically), and don't have nearly the orgasms we should be having.... Naturally, women know when we are ovulating, and when we're not - therefore we know when sex is recreational vs. procreational. We are BUILT for recreational sex. Men arent - to the obvious extent that we are anyway... We are fortunate enough to have a clitoris - which has JACK to do with making babies, lol.
PLEASURE, baby. ...
They (men) are likely to be confused about the necessity for their ejaculations (lol).... The ancient practices of Tantra and Taoist transcendent sexual practices (the pure feminine traditions of those systems) were geared toward more deeply enhancing a womans connection to her life force energy (sexual energy) with specific exercises... the practices of men are different according to their makeup. Men are less advanced sexually. They are less discriminating than women, because they (men) are weaker spiritually... (yes, its a fact )...
Without the empowerment that sexual acceptance provided women (before established patriarchy) we have become insecure about the rift between the feminine 'chaste' ideal (the virgin mother, etc.), and the mythological sleeper. we have a hard time integrating the two, allowing the both to exist simultaneously, without resorting to male-created images of ideal womanliness. the patriarchy's ideal woman is not exactly a woman, but more like a young boy with big tits, who is ready when he wants to f**k. men have an even harder time with integrating the rift internally and externally between the virgin and sleeper, hence their interest in porn - and their difficulty sharing it with their women. they are watching images (albeit incorrect ones) of a primordial archetype - the insatiable sleeper - all packaged up and sold to them, so that they can control it, so to speak. an unleashed sleeper in the real world who has no guilt about her pleasure, who is also kind and compassionate - and responsible - is really scary for them, especially if she's their partner. porn movie women will never demand him to control his ejaculate so she can have more pleasure, lol...
women aren't naturally competitive in an environment where competition isn't necessary... meaning - if we see the truth - that we can choose mates who please us sexually, don't hold back emtionally and can be present and accountable for their actions... and we don't choose not a very nice persons who aren't, if we use our natural discrimination in choosing mates, we won't need to be jealous of another sister's beauty. we celebrate her as a work of art....
porn is not an accurate picture of feminine sexuality. its up to us to redefine...
naiya's .02
my opinions are based on personal experience with Taoist sexual practices. Women are natural aggressors sexually. but since the advent of the patriarchies (which we still live under), we've been commanded to be unnaturally chaste as an ideal (so we have deep guilt about being our own natural very *friendly* personty selves - even with our own partners), we've fallen out of sync with moontimes, and don't bleed together like we used to (prehistorically), and don't have nearly the orgasms we should be having.... Naturally, women know when we are ovulating, and when we're not - therefore we know when sex is recreational vs. procreational. We are BUILT for recreational sex. Men arent - to the obvious extent that we are anyway... We are fortunate enough to have a clitoris - which has JACK to do with making babies, lol.
PLEASURE, baby. ...
They (men) are likely to be confused about the necessity for their ejaculations (lol).... The ancient practices of Tantra and Taoist transcendent sexual practices (the pure feminine traditions of those systems) were geared toward more deeply enhancing a womans connection to her life force energy (sexual energy) with specific exercises... the practices of men are different according to their makeup. Men are less advanced sexually. They are less discriminating than women, because they (men) are weaker spiritually... (yes, its a fact )...
Without the empowerment that sexual acceptance provided women (before established patriarchy) we have become insecure about the rift between the feminine 'chaste' ideal (the virgin mother, etc.), and the mythological sleeper. we have a hard time integrating the two, allowing the both to exist simultaneously, without resorting to male-created images of ideal womanliness. the patriarchy's ideal woman is not exactly a woman, but more like a young boy with big tits, who is ready when he wants to f**k. men have an even harder time with integrating the rift internally and externally between the virgin and sleeper, hence their interest in porn - and their difficulty sharing it with their women. they are watching images (albeit incorrect ones) of a primordial archetype - the insatiable sleeper - all packaged up and sold to them, so that they can control it, so to speak. an unleashed sleeper in the real world who has no guilt about her pleasure, who is also kind and compassionate - and responsible - is really scary for them, especially if she's their partner. porn movie women will never demand him to control his ejaculate so she can have more pleasure, lol...
women aren't naturally competitive in an environment where competition isn't necessary... meaning - if we see the truth - that we can choose mates who please us sexually, don't hold back emtionally and can be present and accountable for their actions... and we don't choose not a very nice persons who aren't, if we use our natural discrimination in choosing mates, we won't need to be jealous of another sister's beauty. we celebrate her as a work of art....
porn is not an accurate picture of feminine sexuality. its up to us to redefine...
naiya's .02
