Wahaika needed : ( Help !

[syklewrench]

Wahaika
I remember you welcoming me and not to hard on the girls @ Breast Nexus Eve's site. I continuing to post Regina's journey there. I even put a Note on Program as for informational purposes only and if questions or comments are directed to main form I would only reply in private. But I stay low profile and add nothing to the boards for advice or to correct their direction they are leading newbies etc. Only do I say anything is if one privately asks for help and several have so far since I went Underground. I noticed several days ago the old wound was opened up again and many posted after it and it seems they have forgotten me in the collective from the past. So now I see a post "off topic-creepy" ... Now I have another knee jerker posting words in my mouth about my wants etc and her repulsed by my signature closing each update post. Some of these sights are so juvenile,simple minded,petty and outright rude do to no responsibility of what they post. The moderators are one sided and often prejudice. It saddens me to see this behavior in human beings. I think you know where I am coming from when it comes to my wife and here wants and needs to be complete and proud woman after giving birth to two healthy son's and possibly a third child if god is willing to bestow appon us another miracle. Where I stand and how I as a former personal trainer and disabled combat veteran responds to requests of others around me. My family to include drones on the web pages of the net. This journey for my wife with NBE is not only special. It has had highs and some very low, lows considering her Angina and Diabetes type 2 health issue's. After taking some supplements and herbs for her health conditions Regina realized that her breasts were firming and growing in size that she approached me as to why and if she could safely do NBE. Why are these women so closed minded and appalled at a husband willing to support and nurture something a wife wants and needs for herself to be happy? It also bothers me that someone thinks so negatively about something so special. That I as a husband that shares his wifes struggling life for some healing and repair sooner than later due to a word called knowledge. I am very proud for her accomplishing goals in life. The fact that Regina has seen great growth in her breasts and increased health with severals company's products is awesome. The extracts have been discontinued do to smell and gagging trying to swallow the drink its in. The fact that her health issues contribute to stress and her light smoking contributes to lower circulation and yet she still has continued to slowly gain bust enlargement naturally over time since January 08. Granted, since Mid April her herbal program change has caused growth spurts I can't believe myself but the mirror and the tape measure never lie. Why does this woman see me as a selfish controlling husband as she claims in her post? Again I ask myself why people don't read the whole story in a persons program before throwing rocks at glass houses? I see this daily on Eve's site and its so sad to see grown women being so insensitive and cruel yet there is not moderation so you stay and put the blinders on or you go away which is sad for the collective. On a lighter note. I have been sending Regina the posts so she can track changes and stats. She told me on phone and in an email that she is so glad that I have tracked her journey on a site and able to copy and email her all for future records. It makes her feel that much more special and appreciated because others may have rewards from her mistakes and gains with NBE.

Here is a part of a letter I got from Regina a few days ago..

Ohh honey... remember we have that massaging oil from the honeymoon? Thats Lavender.... do you think i can use that together with all the massaging stuffs I'm using.... I read in one of your emails... that Lavender oil can mixed too... well.. ill know later when you call me...
Thank you honey.... FOR EVERYTHING... and you know what thrilled and made my heart smile? Is when I read you've been posting my testimonies for me... in that site.... I feel that you are so proud of me the way I feel for myself too...
Want to be looking really great when you come home.... Oh boy.. can't wait for that second honeymoon!!!!! WHIPEEEEEEEEEH! Yipeeeehhhhh Yayeyyyyyyyyy!!!!HAAAAAAAAA! haahaa
I love you baby.... and yes.... I will make you a HAPPY HUBBY =))
God bless you.... kiss and hug Mom and Dad for us.... tell em we love them...

your happy, proud wife
GING

I hope this didn't turn out to be a soap box lecture but I really wanted to stress some critical points that are really bothering me about other people and our own journey in life?

JBS USMC-USA RETIRED

[flatmama]

Hi JB...I'm not wahaika but I know what thread you are talking about and I've read it....there's really just the one person complaining about the 'creepy' thing but 2 (well 3 now) posts with alot of support for you. It's probably just somebody who's had a bad experience in the past with a stupid boyfriend or something that has it out for anyone excited or helpful to their girlfriend/wife with BE. Sorry, don't know much about the whole story but yeah, some people are just immature and the only reason they are heard is because they make sure that everyone hears them. It doesn't make them a majority, just loud.

[syklewrench]

HiYa, Flat Momma

Some people can tip the apple cart so easy these days!!! One of my old Sgt Major from Marines is my PTSD therapist for combat related trauma's. He tells me I explain to much stuff for people that will never understand due to never living what I have endured for so many years as a lifer in the service for a word called freedom. I left Eves site as an active member but left info of Regina's journey for others to see for their own knowledge. It sux to be me these days. It seems like when one person is misunderstood by something I say. That gang of Biddy's come knocking on my door without reading the whole story. I think, I'll drag up so Regina and I can drive this car without any passengers for a while. The emotional stress ain't worth it for some Newbies to be diswased by some idiot with no knowledge let alone a jealous one to boot. Thx so much for a few kind words Flat Mamma. You and many others in this NBE journey are true Hero's in your own right.

KEEP ON GROWING!!!!

JB

[flatmama]

No problem JB. I hope my husband gets excited about my growth (that I'll hopefully have) like you are about your wife's! He's supportive right now...but doubtful! Hopefully I can prove him wrong.

[syklewrench]

Hello Again, FM

I just spent better part of an hour writing a nice calm letter to the Girls at Eve's site. I really don't feel any better. Its funny they are seeing a change they don't like and me stepping out and not correcting or posting they are working it out with out me since going low profile. Be patient follow your feed back and always use visual affirmations etc to keep the happy endorphins going. You will gain just wait n see. Some women take over 2 years to see 3" of gain. You my friend will see sooner than later just go slow and steady.

JB

[flatmama]

Thanks!! I certainly hope for sooner rather than later! I haven't lost my confidence in it working...just working on the patience!! I'm not very good in that department!
I hope you find something to help you feel better with everything. I wish I could tell you something that helps me out after I have to deal with unpleasant situations but mostly I just need to go take a good hard run with some heavy metal music or something! Good Luck!!

[Wahaika]

Hello JB,

I just popped over there and read the entire thread. Without exception each and every post is in support of you except the opening one. (Waxingmoon really cracks me up! ) I think what you see there proves my original point. The ladies over there are great!

I could show you threads on this board where I have gone through the refiners fire, and that is putting it mildly. There will always be those. I think that they all understand where you are coming from, especially now that enough who truly do understand have chimed in. Be thankful for them!!

And to the defense of those who are "creeped out" you have to agree that the presence of men on boards like this is definitely out of the ordinary.

One thing though, and I hope I'm not stepping outta bounds here, but I think you would do better not to post your wife's pictures. Let her do that personally if she wants to, but if you do the posting of pics it only adds to the suspicion. I can't reasonably think of any men who would approve of putting their wife's pics out in cyberspace. That's just my 2 cents.

As for the way you sign your posts, it is a little "in your face" but on the other hand, you are a U.S. Marine! Thank you for serving, by the way. It's though people like you that keep the rest of us free that makes everything possible.

Good luck and hang in there!

Wahaika

[syklewrench]

Wahaika and Flat Mamma

You two and a few others have been true open friends in this adventure so off the beaten path. As for pictures posting etc. Regina is very shy and so traditional.. She wanted to show starts and progress yet the full curves to the cyber world was off limits. She picked several pictures and said these are oK but bust to neck no more no less. Argue with a filipina, I dare ya : ) For some reason on Eve's site I can't edit so I would restructure posts but can't so I am refraining from the ( .Y. ) es on new posts LMLAO.. I wish I could exercise to get rid of stress but pool therapy and swimming is it for me. These days that is not an option though. Among many other things that plague me, Fibromialgia is so taxing with stress and anger etc. Its easy to land in bed for days over the simplest BS.. I am glad that what I have logged for Regina is available to the masses. I know that NBE works differently on each lady but knowledge is helpful and I never could hoard the wealth, LoL.. You all take care and if you don't hear from me for a while I am taking time out at the VA in Bay Area Calif prior to heading back to the P.I.

Keep On Growing!!!

JB

[serene]

JB,
You may not read this for a while but I think what you're doing is great! I have a very supportive husband, but he is not checking out the herbs with me. Your wife is very fortunate to have such a suportive husband. I think that we on this board and the ladies on Eve's are very fortunate to have someone who has and is willing to share their knowledge. For me personally it's helpful because I have a bit of a memory problem. I've been reading into herbs for BE for around 5 years, I can remember the basics, but I still need guidance.

I think that with you being a man posting on a woman's site you are going to raise a few suspicions, that's just to be expected. Especially in a society where a lot of women are pressed with the idea that that is what men are after. A lot of women with smaller breasts have caught a lot of flack from men for having smaller breasts. These are some reason's why they might get suspicious, however, it does not excuse the posting on Eve's. You have a lot of supporters who respect your knowledge, and are thankful for your help.

I also agree with Flatmama, she put it very well.
I hope all goes well for you at the V.A. And I'm very excited for you that you get to be with your wife again soon!

serene

[syklewrench]

Hello Again, Serene
I am not happy with several knee jerker's over at Eves. I backed way off and still layed in the hide while I was pot shot at with near misses,LMLAO...After 3 different posts I asked for some help here to clear the air before making a frontal attack on their ground.. Yes it sux to be away from a wife. Especially this "Sweet Pea".. I had a west pac widow for 15 of 19 year marriage and thought I had it all but was deceived and lead on while sent away alot on deployments. Now that I have a keeper it sux to be away from home and I look forward to this woman in my life like my right hand.. Most all of you girls here have been most respectful and responsible to me and generally on this site. There is another man here that is much more knowledgeable in NBE than I Serene. I have much versatile experience but I still ask for help when research does not help much. You take care and thx again for your 2 cents. I also want to thx you all for your respects to me serving for a reason to all freedom world wide or lets say mostly...

Thx

JB

[flatmama]

Hey JB
Sorry about the running comment..I hope I didn't offend you.
I kow what you mean about arguing with a filipina...I knew a filipina girl awhile back...yeah, she was short and small but you did not want to get in her way when her mind was set on something....but really aren't alot of us women that way!!!
Don't worry about those women over there....the ones that have a problem are the ones that just didn't take the time to get to know you. There's nothing wrong with a supportive husband who is excited about his wife's growth. Trust me, if mine were the size of your wife's my husbands jaw would be dragging on the ground (Even though he loves my small ones!! I do this for me, not him. I'm the only with a problem with my body). Keep up the support and excitement for your wife and I'm very happy for you that you get to go see your wife soon!!

I hope everything goes well for you at the VA. I really do appreciate your service in the armed forces. It's a tough life that not alot of people understand, especially the marines! My husband is currently serving but he's in an 'easier' branch of the service so I lucked out.
There are alot of people out there that don't aprreciate what you do/have done for the country! Thank you very much!

FM

[serene]

I can certainly undrestand about not being happy with the negative posts, you are trying to help, and having a bad seed spout off like that is not cool. The poster obviously didn't take into consideration all the other ladies on the site who were appreciative of your help.

I'm very glad you've got a good woman by your side now. I'll keep my opinions to myself about the users and abusers of their spouses, I will say I don't speak kindly of them. I hope you have an awesome homecoming!

As for the other man on the site, I will honestly say he is a big reason why I joined this forum. I respect his knowledge, and am very thankful to be given his advice. I had been reading on this site for years, and am very introverted and shy. I am not one who usually asks for help, and I am actually proud of myself for stepping out of my bubble and joining. I have to say I really like this forum and the support that is found here.

My husband and I are from the Bay Area, well my husband grew up there, I did most of my growing up in different parts of it and in other places. I don't know where the VA is there, I'm hoping in or near S.F. so you can enjoy the sights, and maybe some Chinese food, (it's hard to find good Chinese food up here in my area-it's all been Americanized).

Thanks for your support, and helping to give the women on this site a boost! (pun intended ). And thank you again for keeping our country safe!
Stay safe, and have a great weekend!
Serene