the ex

[fliffers]

hey ladies~
i'm in need of some advice. i've been dating my current bf for about 5 months and his ex--who he liked a lot-- has been calling/txting him a lot within the last month, asking him to hang out every weekend. so far, I do not think he's gone because he knows it makes me uncomfortable, but I know he's considered hanging with her. I've already talked to him about it, but is there anything I can do to get the ex to back off? it's really stressing me out.

Thanks!!
Steph

[em357304]

I think a lot depends on how long they dated and how long they ago they broke up...some people can remain friends and that's fine, but also on the other hand I would never put my partner in that position because I know he would be uncomfortable with me being friends with my ex...now your boyfriend should ask himself if his friendship with her is more important than your relationship because I'm sure that it is going to cause all kinds of problems, especially since you're already uncomfortable with the idea....I don't think that there's much you can do to get her to back off because it would probably just make her try harder since she doens't seem to be taking you're feelings into consideration...I would say just make sure that you've made it clear how uncomfortable it makes you and how stressed you are and hope that he understands...and if not then maybe you have bigger issues to look at...just my opinion...good luck with the situation