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Post by vxandraxv on Sept 1, 2006 11:36:46 GMT -5
Just so you know...that's the way men are. My hubby doesnt do ANYTHING without being told. I finally have him trained to take out the trash on his own. He is getting a little better, though. He does wash the dishes sometimes now. Let me add that we have been together almost 7 years now. Just try to get him into 1 good habit a year. That may be your only chance. What! We only have sex, like, one week out of the month. Then we do it 2-4 times in that week. We both stay very busy. Not to mention he smokes and I cannot even stand to kiss him when he has been smoking...which is all the time! When we do have sex, though, I dont understand why I dont want to have sex all the time, but other than that, I dont have a sex drive.  |
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Post by confused on Sept 5, 2006 23:50:19 GMT -5
Hello Ladies,
I hope you don't mind my input into this conversation, but I helped my wife with everything in the house while we were married for almost 10 years and then she left me for someone else, so at this point I haven't even thought of another relationship, because I couldn't stand another mistake. One thing though, we are very good friends now for the last 20 some years and do spend some time together only working doing things she needs my help with. Anyway, just to say all men are not like that. Some are thoughtful. Although, I am on my way to feminization, which so far hasn't bothered anyone. I feel much more complete and happier now. Sorry for getting sidetracked. Good Luck to both of you in your relationships.
sincerely,
confused
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Post by vxandraxv on Sept 6, 2006 9:53:02 GMT -5
1.) 2.) Line 2 can only be explained by line 1. LOL. The old sayings about all the good ones are true.   |
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Post by angelface on Sept 6, 2006 11:20:18 GMT -5
Hope you don't mind me getting in on this discussion...
My ex-husband was exactly the same. He worked, then got fired, then got into drugs. Wouldn't do anything. Made me sick. I'm the one who stopped wanting to have sex with him. We got divorced after 3 years of marriage. The hard thing about it is you can't change them. If they are lazy... then they usually will stay lazy.
I am remarried now. I have a wonderful husband who helps out alot. (And I don't even work.)
If you are angry about the way he is, it just may get harder and you may get even more angry. (Like I was.) I think you should lay down the law with him. After all, you are the one working hard and supporting him.
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