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Post by nmiar76 on Jul 19, 2006 16:41:39 GMT -5
hey all im so glad i found this website (just today) and i've been reading for 3 hours now ,,, thanks god im not the only one with these feelings about small boobs .... i never had any problems with my boobs all my life until my husband started giving me hints of how my boobs r small and that he hadnt noticed that before( we didint have sex b4 mariage) anyways it affected me in now in so many ways im so insecure about myself now and thought about breast aug, but too scared , but after finding this website i have hopes with the herbs,im gonna start real soon, here's my question do u think its worth continiung with my husbad knowing that we have other marriage problems and we r on a breaking point now( he moved out ) and we r in the thinking phase now ... do i love him... i dont think so ... even sex is not good because of the insecurities i have now ...please help..thanks
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Post by vxandraxv on Jul 19, 2006 16:58:03 GMT -5
That is soooooo wrong of him. I do hope that why you two are in the thinking phase that you are going to marriage counseling together. Even at your church or something. Does he say other things to you to make you feel less of a person, too? Bigger boobs wont fix the marriage. BE takes a lot of time and effort and can be very strenuis(sp?). So, just be sure that if you are doing this that you are doing this for YOURSELF and nobody else.
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Post by littlelibrarian on Aug 26, 2006 8:36:50 GMT -5
It's no different than finding playboy pictures and movies - surly he knew their size before you married - mine did - back when I married (22 years ago) they didn't have the bras out that they do today, it wasn't hard to tell they weren't big. At least yours will admit it - mine won't admit that my boobs are too small but the magazines, movies etc certainly clued me in.
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Post by vxandraxv on Aug 26, 2006 10:33:52 GMT -5
littlelibrarian...yes, I know exactly what you mean. My hubby is the same way! If mine are so perfect, then why is the only porn he looks at pictures of BIG breasted women? Oh, and on that topic...I found downloaded videos of "MILF hunters." Funny that I always thought that I was a MILF! But he was looking at them...and they looked nothing like me!
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Post by em357304 on Aug 26, 2006 21:36:22 GMT -5
funny that you mention MILF hunters...my boyriend has a ton of those...the porn doesn't bother me much though ...and ladies...don't get too down on men watching porn with women with big breasts...the number of porn stars with small breasts is way lower than the number of them with huge ones...so there aren't many options...and every man i've talked to loves breasts of all sizes...i'm sure that the men you are with love every part of you even if you don't think you're perfect!!!  |
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