GROSS

[forgottenthis]

So I just found out that my ex and now really close friend whose 19 got a blowjob from this bimbo girl last year who was 15. 15!!!!!! It makes me so sick that I want to just throw up. ugh. Why are guys such slaves to sex that they're willing to get it from just about anywhere? It really disgusts me.


Sorry everyone, I needed to get that out somewhere. Ugh, I feel dirty just knowing that it happened.

[wannagrow]

yeah, i know exactly what u mean!!!
guys don't care where they get it from, they just wanna get it!! that's gross!!
i have a story too...
i had a friend and 2 years ago when he was 18, he went with his friend to some girl that one of them knew,and they came to her house and slept together one after the other.
he told me about it and i didnt know her.. and then a year later i met her somewhere.. and she was like the fattest girl i've ever seen she was like a mountain! she weights like 150 kg i'm sure! and she's my age, she was 16 when it happened!
thats awful... why would she sleep with 2 guys, that one of them she doesn't even know? and how could they not care about how she looks?
this friend then became my boyfriend last year.. and it was hard for me in the beginning because i thought about what he did.. and it discusted me..

[forgottenthis]

that's definently nasty. i don't understand how someone could do something like that...either the girl you spoke about, or the boys. ugh. there are so many people out there today (atleast in my experiences) that have little to no standards (both boys and girls), that or they just don't take sex seriously. the same friend i mentioned above told me once that most of the time sex to him had the same level of emotion to him as kissing someone, and that he didn't even need to care about the person - his only focus most of the time is getting off. honestly, it feels like the whole world is just sleeping around with each other and everyone seems to think its just peachy.

bah. this is me totally venting...

[buffy]

To me it seems that people have different standards, not necessarily lower or higher ones. It's not for me to judge a person because they do or do not relate sex to love or commitment. What does bother me is that these are teenagers for the most part and young girls especially do not have liberated attitudes so much as they compromise the values that were instilled in them by their parents for some sort of percieved gain. Part of the problem is the huge disconnect between how males and females are taught to look at sex.

[twilightsrose]

I had a friend who was dating this guy who went to a party, and at that party there were some girls who were professional escorts. They weren't there as escorts, they were friends with some of the people there. They gave blowjobs to some of the guys including my friends boyfriend. Needless to say, they weren't dating after that.

I definitely agree with Buffy above. Honestly, I have no problem with people who are promiscuous, or have "interesting" sex lives... as long as they are emotionally mature enough to understand the consequences and to handle the consequences, and as long as they aren't hurting others when doing it...such as cheating - now that is one thing that really makes me gag

In regards to the young girls.... too many young girls (and some older) equate sex with love... they think that if they sleep with a guy that guy will love them forever... they don't realize that guys don't usually form commitments with girls who are too willing to jump in the sack. Either that, or they just need the attention because they can't get it otherwise... such as, maybe they are lonely....

In regards to guys with sex.... alot of guys I know relate sex to nothing terribly emotional... sex is just sex...doesn't really matter who its with... but when it comes to commitment and relationships and being intimate in other ways.... that is a completely different story. Its just how many guys are wired... nothing can be really done about it.

Take care....

[akira]

Goodness, reminds me of a story that hit real close to home. I had found out a couple years ago that a friend of mine who is not much older than I am(i'm 21 now, when this happened I was about 17)a friend of mine had an affair with my father. My father is in his 40's and at the time my friend was 18. Granted, yeah she was of legal consenting age, but man he was old enough to be her father! I didn't find out til way later when my father dumped my friend for some other woman(who is still quite young but not young enough to be his daughter)and my friend didn't tell me anything about it til after it happened! She is not my friend anymore and I refuse to talk with my dad anymore(but there's more than that reason that I don't talk with my dad but that's a whole nother story).

I think another factor into the whole huge age differences where men are older and girls are younger is the fact that men sometimes have that need to conquer anyone who is willing and basically having bragging rights. Granted, some of those bragging rights can get you in a lot of trouble(all that 15 year old has to do is call RAPE and no matter if it was consentual or not, he'll get time for it)but some just forego the risk just for the bragging rights.

Best not to think about it and just realize he's just sad that he couldn't get anyone his age to do that for him.

[hydeandseek]

An age difference in a relationship is fine as long as both people are in the relationship for the right reasons. The woman shouldn't be after the guy's money (if he has any) and the guy shouldn't be with her just because she's young & attractive. They call those things "May-December" romances. I've always dated older men, in some cases, old men, guys that were older than my dad, but there's also the extreme of things like Anna Nicole Smith....I mean now 26 & 89 is ridiculous.