Is he happy with your breast size?

[Tweety]

How much influence does your man have on your breast enhancement, whether it be surgical or natural?

Does he push implants on you or discourage them?

Is NBE your choice, his choice, or both?

The only relationships I've had in which the men didn't like my tiny breasts were unhealthy, miserable relationships. Although the men (in these two cases) didn't push implants on me, one tried to discourage me from NOT getting the surgery. The other guy would make little jokes even though he know how much it hurt me...I think he had brain damage or something because he said the STUPIDEST things, and then later tried to smooth it over by saying they were "perfect breasts" well the damage had been done. Fortunately I didn't let those two guys scar me for life, nor did I go out and get surgery because I don't and never have really wanted it. My boyfriend now loves my breasts the size they are and assures me on a regular basis that I have NOTHING to worry about with my body. He liked them at 31.5", he loved them at 33"...what a surprise if I can make it to a 34B (I'm 34A now).

[idontmeasureup]

Hi Tweety,

I have to say that I've been lucky that all the relationships I've been in, I've never felt inadequate about my boobs & the guy has never said rude things about my chest either. The only reason I'm insecure in this deal is I now know my husband's ex-wife had D cup implants, but she got them at the advice of her mother to correct a so-called deformity. He was totally against it. He's told me that my boobs are perfect, and that I don't need to do anything about them. He doesn't want me to get implants, but will pay for them so I'll stop b******* about my boobs and finally said that I can try NBE if I get all my stuff at WHole Foods Market, since they have a generous return policy. The problem is: I don't want to to tell him I'm doing NBE b/c he's very impatient with dietary supplements & will want me to get a refund on everything if I'm not a DD by the end of the first week. I'm gonna try to keep it underwraps as long as I can b/c I want to at least stick wtih something for 6 months or so, maybe I'll luck out & it will work and if it doesn't, then I'll know. Oh, and the best way to deal with a guy that makes fun of small breasts is make a comment like "Without a doubt, you have the smallest p***s I've ever seen!." or "Your brain must be the same size of your p***s, EXTRA SMALL." You'll probably never see him again after that, but if a guy doesn't accept you the way you are, HE AIN'T WORTH HAVING.

Hit Him Where It REALLY Hurts------His Ego!

[Michelle]

idon'tmeasureup, although I see why you would say that to a guy, actually doing it would bring you down to his level. If a guy isn't worth having for saying your breasts are too small, then a girl who says that to a guy is not worth having as well. You don't have to be that hurtful to prove a point. Just my 2 cents.

And to answer Tweety, the decision to start NBE is totally my idea. My boyfriend says my breasts are perfect although I know he would really love them to be bigger. I mean, I'm a 32AA! I suppose it's a self-esteem issue and I want bigger breasts for me, not anyone else.

[Tweety]

Hey gals...
Thanks for your replys!
idontmeasureup...the other cool thing about not telling your hubby what you're doing is you can have an honest opinion of how much you're growing. How cool will it be a few months down the road when he asks, "Are these growing?" That's how I knew my Brava made a difference. I hadn't seen my boyfriend in over three months, the time it took to do a complete Brava cycle, and when he saw me he asked in confusion "Did these grow since I saw you last?" heehee
I'm looking forward to the day I can whip off my bra and say, "Look ma, no padding!"
Good point, Michelle, on not being brought down to his level...in the cases with my two boyfriends who teased me about my breasts, I left them both (not just because of them making fun of me but for many other reasons) and they both wanted me to come back to them. If a guy is that shallow about your breasts, what would happen if you were paralyzed, or deformed? I would hope his devotion would run deeper than the way you look.
Both of you said your guys told you that your breasts were perfect...that is awesome! Years ago a high school boyfriend told me he was happy with the size I was at and I didn't believe him. This hurt him deeply. He was VERY upset that I didn't take his word for it. I would never doubt a guy again unless he said things that contradicted it, like teasing me about the size of them, then trying to convince me he thought they were perfect.
I think most guys want their girl to be natural, no matter how small she is. I have never heard a guy say "I love implants!" I've heard gals obsess much, much more about getting implants than guys trying to convince their girls to get them.

[shakira8]

When a guy tells you to get new boobs it's time for you to get a new man!!!!

[shakira8]

I just wanted to say that the only reason for you to start NBE is to feel good about yourself,not just to please smbd else.I always wanted bigger boobs but I found this board just 3months ago so that's why I'm starting now and not earlier,not because I happen to have a bf.I'm sure he appreciates big breasts but he loves me as I am,he adores my areolas and finds them unique-coz they're kinda puffy I guess!He's 6+1/2 years younger than me (I'm 25+1/2 and he's 19),has a great body and he used to be a heartbreaker but for the past 2years we're together+ he's crazy about me.My point is that u can get even the most gorgeous guy and keep him WITHOUT having huge breasts,so whatever u do just do it for yourself!

[Tweety]

You got the puffy nipple thing going on, too?!
I think they flatten out a bit when your boobs grow?

You're absolutely right, though--a man who cares only about breast size is not worth it. Just think how stressed a gal would be if she was doing it for him...it's hard enough keeping motivated for yourself! And think if it didn't work...then what? Would he be pushing implants?

I think men are usually pretty realistic about this stuff. The ones who aren't are generally still single because no one's "good enough" for them, or the ones who are good enough want nothing to do with them!!

[idontmeasureup]

michelle said:

idon'tmeasureup, although I see why you would say that to a guy, actually doing it would bring you down to his level. If a guy isn't worth having for saying your breasts are too small, then a girl who says that to a guy is not worth having as well. You don't have to be that hurtful to prove a point. Just my 2 cents.

I was giving an outragous example of how a woman could turn the tables on a guy that is putting her down b/c of her breast size. He's not worth having if he doesn't accept you as you are, you are exactly right. But isn't it hurtful when he makes comments about breast size. It was just an example.

Hey Tweety, yeah, I'm anxious to see if my husband takes notice if I DO grow at all. And, I got some serious, but temporary puffy nipples from Brava. As soon as I took off my domes, it was like they just sprung into action. And, that's awesome that your boyfriend noticed your breast growth from Brava. I really admire those of you that were able to stick to the Brava regiment. 10+ hours a day sounds easy til you start doing it.

[shakira8]

Tweety I don't thing that the ...puffyness will go away,maybe a little,I don't know-and I don't mind really,I like them like that!Don't u?

[Tweety]

What can I say, I can't complain with how God made me. I could be a paraplegic, or be deaf or blind...He made me healthy so I'm not complaining. Sure I would like to grow bigger breasts but my life will not end if I can't. God blessed me with a boyfriend who loves the way I look.
If I had a boyfriend who complained or made jokes about my small breasts he would be dumped like a hot potatoe...if he doesn't like the way I look he can go find some big breasted woman to make him happy!
I guess I figured as your breast tissue stretches, so will your nipples? Not sure...I guess we'll see...right gals?!

[idontmeasureup]

Hey Tweety I hear ya, the other day I was leaving the grocery store & I saw this this man riding on a skateboard b/c he had no legs & I thought to myself, "And, I'm worried about my boobs?" That was quite a reality check for me.

[shakira8]

Yeah,we should be thankfull that this is the only problem we got,other people got much more serious things to worry about!

[prettysoulful]

I've not had any bad responses to my breast size by men. But for me, I just always thought I would have larger breast. My mom and baby sister are both in the D/DD range. Me and my older sister are like my father's side and have a small torso and waist, but rounded hips. Actually, my boyfriend is crazy for a small waist, and a round buttocks, and not too particular about breasts, so we are a great pair. hehehe.

So, to answer your question, I'm doing BE just for me. I want more for the look and to help balance my curvy hips and buttocks.

[Tweety]

That seems to be the common denominator here--that we're all doing BE for us, and we're all lucky enough to have men who love our breasts just how they are!

Big breasts aren't everything. If it's any consulation, one night I was flipping channels and caught a glimpse of this British program, where these two women were walking on the beach, one topless. It was grotesque. She had huge, saggy boobs...I'd take my firm lil perky ones over that any day!

Even if we don't get to our D, DD, etc. just remember that the older we get, the less that will sag! Especially those of us who haven't had babies yet! (for that reason alone I only want a B cup...I have a small frame and I think a B would look good and proportional).

[blueangel]

i would sooner be flat as i am than have too much