Post by Glasskulan on Sept 28, 2004 6:06:34 GMT -5
Hi all!
Here in Sweden there are publicity drives for ladies' underwear, by H&M, twice a year, (around christmas time?
and summertime) showing half naked large breasted girls (often with silicon). Theese campaignes almost ruined my years as a teenager. I'm 32 and I feel like if I've lost many years of my life thinking that I was inferior to other girls because of my breastsize (A sometimes AA). As a teenager I had a fixation on my looks and especially on my breasts. I tried to make them look bigger and when I succeeded I was admired by the "wrong kind" of men, of course...
Because of that and the fact that I didn't dare to take of my clothes in front of any man, I didn't have a relationship until I was 20, and perhaps a little more mature. Unfortunately I caught a man who was quite mean, he even used to beat me up. He also flirted openly with other largebreasted girls, probably to make me jealous, and perhaps increase my feeling of inferiority... I thought that I was in love with him though, so I didn't leave him, until I stopped using padded bras, I even stopped wearing makeup (except for my favourite lipstick). I will never forget the day when I was out for a walk with my best friend and we talked about breasts (hers are huge) and she said: "Sure, mine are bigger than yours, but it's you that the men are looking at" or something like that.
What I want to say is this: do not let the size of your breasts, or any part of your body, totally dominate your thoughts. I'm sure you all got something that is very special, wonderful, beautiful... and it really is the inside that counts. Only when you really realize this, you might find the nice guys, if that's what you want. To all of you younger ladies: Don't follow my footsteps thinking that you're not good enough just because of your breastsize, forget commercials, forget comparing yourself to others. If you feel that you want bigger breasts for your own sake, that's fine, but remember: you are not inferior to any other girl or woman whatever your breastsize is!
Here in Sweden there are publicity drives for ladies' underwear, by H&M, twice a year, (around christmas time?
and summertime) showing half naked large breasted girls (often with silicon). Theese campaignes almost ruined my years as a teenager. I'm 32 and I feel like if I've lost many years of my life thinking that I was inferior to other girls because of my breastsize (A sometimes AA). As a teenager I had a fixation on my looks and especially on my breasts. I tried to make them look bigger and when I succeeded I was admired by the "wrong kind" of men, of course... Because of that and the fact that I didn't dare to take of my clothes in front of any man, I didn't have a relationship until I was 20, and perhaps a little more mature. Unfortunately I caught a man who was quite mean, he even used to beat me up. He also flirted openly with other largebreasted girls, probably to make me jealous, and perhaps increase my feeling of inferiority... I thought that I was in love with him though, so I didn't leave him, until I stopped using padded bras, I even stopped wearing makeup (except for my favourite lipstick). I will never forget the day when I was out for a walk with my best friend and we talked about breasts (hers are huge) and she said: "Sure, mine are bigger than yours, but it's you that the men are looking at" or something like that.
What I want to say is this: do not let the size of your breasts, or any part of your body, totally dominate your thoughts. I'm sure you all got something that is very special, wonderful, beautiful... and it really is the inside that counts. Only when you really realize this, you might find the nice guys, if that's what you want. To all of you younger ladies: Don't follow my footsteps thinking that you're not good enough just because of your breastsize, forget commercials, forget comparing yourself to others. If you feel that you want bigger breasts for your own sake, that's fine, but remember: you are not inferior to any other girl or woman whatever your breastsize is!
In Holland the shop is quite famous as well and therefor there are these HUGE boards with gorgeous looking girls on them...always making me drawl... But then I just think that someday I will have those breasts too, and that thought will always take away unhappy thoughts. Really inmature of course, but I imagine myself looking like that and then I smile about the thought... As long as I know it's not impossible to ever get nice boobs, I'm happy with the thought of someday owning them. But of course, it would be a lot better to accept myself right away, but somehow I can only do that when I make myself believe that I will only become better looking in time, hahaha!! 
