Chakras and weight loss

[teatowel]

I read and article on chakras and weight loss in which clearing issues related to a certain chakra helped reduce weight in that area. In one case a very loving large breasted woman could not lose weight in her breasts because she was so loving (poor thing), whereas a chubby thighed women had safety and esteem issues. Here's the gripe. Are all we flat chested girls unloving. I feel like I overloved my hubby and children for the past 15 years. How come I didn't gain weight in my breasts? My low self esteem didn't start til I did the stay at home mom thing. I used to be well educated and had a decent job, etc. I dated. But I've always had problem thighs, even when I ran track in highschool. So I felt loved and was loving and I still had the same figure problems as I do now. Anyway this whole arguement seems circular and ridiculous, but it kinda had to do with breast enhancement. If we all become more loving, clear away other issues, and eat like piggies, we should grow breasts. Right? tea

[lucille]

Hi Tea,
Nice to see you again! I've also heard the same theory about chakras, but I don't think it can be interpreted too rigidly.

If there is indeed a connection between breasts and love, I think it has to do with SELF-LOVE (at least in my case). I also have no problem giving and receiving love ... except when it comes to MYSELF and MY BODY.

Might be something worth exploring ... I have personally been making an effort to be more loving and nurturing towards my body since starting this BE process. Maybe it's helped, maybe not. But I do know my breasts *are* growing and I *do* feel better when I treat myself with a lil' love.

Good luck!
Lucy

[fawnmarie]

Um -

No, honestly I know a couple of different large breasted women - and two of them are extreme bitches. NOT because they are large breasted - just because they are! They are bossy, self-serving, intolerant, greedy and selfish.

Some of the women I know with large breasts are very sweet and kind. They love others, their families and are always giving.

Some women I know who are just wonderful are very small breasted!

I have large thighs, but I'm certainly NOT insecure! I've had large thighs since puberty and for most of the years since then, I've pretty much thought I was hot nuts in a couple of different ways.

I think large breasted women are large breasted because of GENETICS!!!!!

I think large thighs are because of GENETICS! (ALL the people in my family have large thighs - even the guys, though they have more muscle than the girls).

You can play around with chemicals and try to outsmart things, but the truth is that the human body comes in a variety of styles, and that style is determined MOSTLY by genetics and the genetics that have survived to this point are those that have PROVEN to be successful. In women, a "successful" design USUALLY means that males have found that attribute attractive enough to make more copies of mom.

The rest of physical development is nutrition and environment.

The reason that some women have small breasts is because it's a design that has worked very, very well and has survived through the 10's of thousands of years humans have been "human". For some reason or another, the design has survived.

Why? Because men have found small breasted mates attractive and have mated with them and made MORE small breasted women!

I'm not buy the chakra thing. To blame physical attributes on a mental attitude is nothing short of medieval.

Tea, forgive me for saying so, but something tells me that if you were in a half-decent relationship (or even in none at all), your breasts wouldn't even be an issue for you. I think you need to look at putting up with a crappy marriage has done to your self-esteem. There's nothing wrong with your body.

Fawn
2 cents

[gigi]

Hi Tea,
I don't buy the chakra approach either. I think it's arbitrary. There are thousands of theories that attempt to explain why we are the way we are. However, I do believe how we view ourselves has a lot to do with how successful we are. Seeing ourselves through someone else's eyes can be a good thing. Weighing that view above all isn't good. We're all here to improve the state of our breasts which would be a terrific acheivement indeed. But, for my part, if it doesn't happen, so what?

[marshall97]

Tea,
"Tea, forgive me for saying so, but something tells me that if you were in a half-decent relationship (or even in none at all), your breasts wouldn't even be an issue for you. I think you need to look at putting up with a crappy marriage has done to your self-esteem. There's nothing wrong with your body."

You didn't ask for my opinion, but I'm gonna give you my two cents, too, anyway. I totally agree with Fawn!

If you woke up with D cups tomorrow, you still wouldn't be any happier. You focus your negativity on your breasts, but anyone who has followed your posts for any length of time knows that your insecurities about your breasts are just the tip of the iceberg.


Bigger boobs won't fix all your problems. In fact, they won't fix any of them. That's why so many women are disappointed after they get implants. If you get implants (or do BE) for the wrong reasons, or with unrealistic expectations of what bigger boobs will mean to your life, you will be disappointed.
And the crap about small breasted=unloving (or whatever) is just that, CRAP. Don't buy into it. There really is NOTHING wrong with your body. From everything you've ever said about, it sounds pretty sexy to me!
M97

[teatowel]

"If you woke up with D cups, you still wouldn't be happy"....d**n straight I wouldn't be happy. I'm not hauling all that extra weight around. I am waking up a happy B. No, really I see your point. I just hated the chakra article and felt like griping about it. I do like to try new stuff, but am I that gullible? Probably not. I am working on the hubby thing, going back to school. Just not rushing out with four kids to feed. Exploring my options. Hope everyone is enjoying the winter weather. We went cross country skiing today. It snowed on our ice so no more skating unless we want to shovel the lake...love this stuff. tea

[gigi]

Way to go Tea!
I didn't get the sarcasm in your original post until I read your current response. Guess I didn't read it the way you meant it . Your agenda regarding hubby and future sounds good and also very smart. No need to sit squarely behind the eight ball if you don't have to. Took me a long time to understand that I didn't have to react to everything immediately. My therapist told me, "the best revenge is living well". She was so right.

[fawnmarie]

I didn't get the sarcasm either!

Sheesh - tea - I hate to hear about you being unhappy, you seem like such a great person. I understand everybody's got their bears to cross, probably one of those "karmic" things.

I think you should make him buy you those D cups, and THEN dump him! (After the kids are raised!)

And yep - living well is the best revenge!

Fawn

[marshall97]

Tea,
I'm not going to lie to you. I would take the extra weight of D cups ANY DAY OF THE WEEK!
Am I selfish, or what? A girl can dream.
M97

[gigi]

M97,
If you're going to aim for something, aim high-or buxom in this case. Personally, even though a C cup would make me very happy; I also wouldn't turn down the D.

[fawnmarie]

Chubby thighed women have esteem issues BECAUSE we have chubby thighs!

Seriously!!!

F

[SomeGirl]

Hi guys, my mother lived in Tibet for a period of time to study the religion and there is much belief in Chakras. I got kind of interested and read up myself but have never heard of this large breasted women theory! But I am certainly no expert at what's out there.

[fawnmarie]

Probably because people in Tibet have more important things to worry about than the size of their breasts!




Maybe it's karma.

Fawn