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Post by aprilbabe36 on Nov 19, 2003 8:09:19 GMT -5
My ex's new girlfriend
is 16 years younger than me
AND
a DD cup (I'm less than an AA).
My dear ex plunged me into the depths of gloom by commenting "but she wears the same size clothes as you, she just fills them voluptuously". He's also told me how strange he finds it walking down the street with her, and all the attention she gets, after the years of being with me.
I'm meeting this stunning girl for the first time on Friday.
Can I have some hugs please?
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Post by mommabean on Nov 19, 2003 8:16:48 GMT -5
Oh April, You can have more than hugs.  That guy sounds like such an A$$hole I think you are incredibly fortunate to be rid of him. What IS his problem anyhow? Oh, I know his biggest problem. He doesn't have YOU! Where is that huggy icon? I can't find it. But you have all my hugs. And the ex can have my foot you know where. |
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Post by fawnmarie on Nov 19, 2003 9:09:19 GMT -5
Do you HAVE to deal with this guy?
Hey - I've 'seen' an 'ex' with someone older, fatter and uglier - and it still didn't feel great.
So, just recognize how crummy it feels, and acknowledge it and put it aside.
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Post by teatowel on Nov 19, 2003 15:35:50 GMT -5
hi april. why are you meeting her on friday? do you have to? no advice here. i'd feel the same way, but honestly, i would try not to blame the girl for her god given gifts. i would however cry buckets. i'm having man problems and thinking of becoming a lesbian myself. it sounds so much more chic than washed up and unwanted middle age dishrag.  tea |
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Post by teatowel on Nov 19, 2003 15:37:39 GMT -5
gosh what if lesbians prefer big breasts too?
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Post by Chickydee on Nov 19, 2003 15:57:41 GMT -5
 oh tea! too funny. I'm so sorry to hear Aprilbabe....like what was mentioned.....he doesn't deserve you! Especially if it's his intention to make u feel bad about yourself....That was pretty rude and inconsiderate of him to say something like that to you! What a jerk! Sounds like he's really trying to make you jealous or something....If it were me, I wouldn't meet her.....I'd just let them be and say adios have a nice life and go on with my life. I'd tell him I'm busy and don't have the time to meet your new sweetheart, but have a nice life! Boy I'd be so glad to be rid of someone like that! Hugs to you! Hope you feel better soon!
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Post by steph on Nov 19, 2003 18:58:21 GMT -5
hey april~
awwwwwww....*HUGG*
i agree with tea though, why are u meeting her in the first place? seriously hun, as tempting as it may be, don't meet her! for any guy to say ...."she just fills them out more voluptuously" automatically makes him an inconsiderate ass, esp b/c he's ur ex and he should understand how u would feel about the girl.
i've been in a similar sitch as you...well the girl didnt have DD's but compared to my AA's she might as well be DD. anyway, point is, it took time but now i'm over it. hang out with your friends more, go out, meet new guys who want YOU, and forget about the jerk!
if it makes you feel any better....picture her DD's 40 years from now...Ewwwww she aint ChestyMcLusty anymore~
muah~ feel better hun
steph
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Post by lild on Nov 19, 2003 21:45:48 GMT -5
Sorry to hear about your dumbass ex! *HUG* You know what you can do though? It's pretty immature and superficial.. but get a male supermodel to go with you when you meet her! Tell them you met him a few weeks ago at some bar! ;D Make that ex jealous.  |
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Post by mommabean on Nov 19, 2003 23:43:02 GMT -5
Steph, hahaha, I thought the same thing. Just imagine what those DDs will look like years from now. She'll be filling out her clothes alright....down to the waistline. Tea, I used to talk to a male neighbor...very fat...large breasts (him, not me) and the dh got jealous and thought I might be interested in him. I told dh that if I wanted someone with breasts, I'd go for women (become a lesbian), not have a guy. I mean really, who needs ANOTHER guy? Although if I decided to be a lesbian, I don't know if I'd want a lady with boobs. It might freak me out. Or maybe I WOULD want that just because I don't have any. Better yet, it would be fun to be all alone...no pressure. |
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Post by aprilbabe36 on Nov 20, 2003 12:54:05 GMT -5
Aaaah... thank you all! I have to have contact with ex as we still have property that we're trying to sell & we're trying to do it as amicably as possible.... He's actually a decent guy but HUGELY tactless - one of the many many reasons we split up.... And I did cry buckets and thought it would be a real problem not to hate this girl when I meet her, but you're right - if I feel myself coming over all jealous, I'll flash forward 40 years & cheer myself up! Thank you all again, really appreciate your words aprilbabe (feeling much better) xxx  |
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Post by SomeGirl on Nov 21, 2003 0:03:51 GMT -5
I know this is a BE site, but seriously DD cups big whoppee dooo! She may be boring in bed, she may be incredibly dull when she talks, not smart, etc! And did you ever think about all the awesome things you do possess, maybe your hair, your eyes, your buns, mind smart as a whip, personality? Don't sell yourself totally short because you don't have heaving melons! Sure guys love nice bouncy tits. But let's get real, only guys who have a mind of a 15 year old will place it over the stuff that really matters. I'm sure he's smaller then some men out there......
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Post by Wenonae on Nov 21, 2003 16:00:38 GMT -5
SomeGirl, Nicely said! |
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Post by lilsx1 on Nov 21, 2003 20:29:17 GMT -5
I'm still curious as to why you meet this girl! The guy sounds like a shallow a$$ !!! I'm with whoever just said she sucks in bed *lol*  < We all love ya anyway and to give you hope - my man is the man every girl wants and he loves me anyway despite small breasts - the guys that are worth anything out there don't care about boob size - my brother is the same way - a butt man! Just to let you know about the good catches out there and not some shallow thingy!!! |
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Post by littleAndro on Sept 24, 2004 20:18:53 GMT -5
Honey, he is obviously not over you! Believe you me, I am ashamed to say that once a few years ago, I was fairly cruel to one of my exes, and that was only because I was desperately in love with him. Not only was I angry, I thought that if my words were detached and mean, my heart might follow. It didn't. I had to move on, and thank god, mature. We're now on good terms. The point is, he is being cruel because he's not over you, he's hurting and wants to make you hurt, too. Don't take the bait of this immature person. You're above that, and he doesn't deserve you. When I was reckless with my exes emotions, I didn't deserve him, either, and with time, I saw that clearly.
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Post by mominator on Sept 28, 2004 17:02:16 GMT -5
Nice ADVICE there LilAndro, and I think you hit the nail on the buttom. If you don't care about someone anymore...you feel the need to hurt them do you? BINGO!
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< We all love ya anyway and to give you hope - my man is the man every girl wants and he loves me anyway despite small breasts - the guys that are worth anything out there don't care about boob size - my brother is the same way - a butt man! Just to let you know about the good catches out there and not some shallow thingy!!!