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Post by hydeandseek on Dec 10, 2005 22:32:21 GMT -5
ok, i need to know input from all of you here. I'm married and i have a guy friend that's single and lonely, would it be really wrong of me to give him a lap dance for christmas? i mean, i wouldn't totally strip down butt naked, i'd have on a push-up bra and g-string and i'd make sure he was FULLY CLOTHED and it would be one of those no touching kind of dances. and when things got hot-n-heavy, i'd back off.
is this a bad idea? am i completly nuts to want to do this?
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Post by HoneeBee on Dec 10, 2005 23:01:13 GMT -5
if your hubby is ok with it then what ever. have fun!!!
but if you have to ask then you probably shouldnt do it.
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Post by hydeandseek on Dec 10, 2005 23:05:16 GMT -5
my hubby doesn't know, he would probably s**t a brick if he knew that i wanted to do this. he doesn't even know this guy is a friend of mine. maybe this isn't such a good idea after all.  |
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Post by blueangel on Dec 11, 2005 16:17:26 GMT -5
give the lap dance to your husband
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Post by fm1 on Dec 12, 2005 7:48:44 GMT -5
I agree with blueangel!
Please do NOT do that!SERIOUSLY! Would you want your husband doing this sorta stuff to another woman! I mean really- you're already emotionally tied to this guy-VERY DANGEROUS FOR A MARRIED WOMAN-, now you want to sexually tease him- I think we can see where this will lead...
Not Worth it for you , your marriage, or the friend! Don't think for a minute that this guy wouldn't interpret that as an invitation for a further relationship! Much better to try and spice up the existing relationship than toy around with trouble!!!
I am a married woman myself and to answer your question- yes-it would be wrong to do! Your husband deserves better than that!
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Post by fawnmarie on Dec 16, 2005 13:15:46 GMT -5
I'm extremely liberal - as you all know - and even *I* think it's a dumb idea.
Give him a stack of dollars and send him to the professionals for Christmas.
Fawn
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Post by zanyzara on Dec 18, 2005 17:45:19 GMT -5
ok, i need to know input from all of you here. I'm married and i have a guy friend that's single and lonely, would it be really wrong of me to give him a lap dance for christmas? i mean, i wouldn't totally strip down butt naked, i'd have on a push-up bra and g-string and i'd make sure he was FULLY CLOTHED and it would be one of those no touching kind of dances. and when things got hot-n-heavy, i'd back off. is this a bad idea? am i completely nuts to want to do this? err yes!!! Do something a bit more constructive for him, Hey why don't you try and hook him up with one of your friends, invite him for Christmas, or encourage him to do online or speed dating. anything but a lap dance. ZZ |
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Post by akira on Dec 21, 2005 9:15:19 GMT -5
Wow, I don't mean to sound rude or anything but, why did you even consider something sexual with a friend of yours while you are married and knowingly knew your husband would be upset with it as a gift? I mean usually what most people do for thier friends around the holidays of the opposite sex is to just get them a gift and let them to their own sexual needs on their own. Also, I don't mean to bring this up, but wouldn't doing anything sexual to a friend of yours be against your religious teachings anyways? Wouldn't you feel horrible if your husband even thought of this for a friend of the opposite sex who is also lonely? I think you should ask yourself that next time you have thoughts like that.
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Post by shakira8 on Jan 5, 2006 9:01:38 GMT -5
Did you do it eventually?I really hope you didn't!
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Post by hydeandseek on Jan 8, 2006 18:04:45 GMT -5
for all who are wondering I didn't do it!  |
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Post by shakira8 on Jan 9, 2006 8:44:11 GMT -5
Thank God!
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