Breaking up

[Shaz]

Not a question or anything, just wanted to share...

Some of you may remember the "boyfriend troubles" thread" a while back. Well, yesterday, we decided to break up. We will stay living together for the moment (but sleep in separate rooms) while we finish decorating the house (we both own) to get it ready for selling. Then we will move apart.

It was strangely calm - a joint decision - we even hugged last night and again this morning.

But, I feel so low, and I'm sure he does too. Doesn't help that I'm not sleeping well and I'm on BO etc which can make me feel bad anyway. And I have to work today, which is the last thing I feel like doing. Looking forward to the weekend so I can just do nothing for a couple of days.

[mominator]

Awwwe Shaz,
I am sorry about the break up. But it does sound like it was the thing to do. Keep your chin up, and I KNOW, Mr. Right will come along in no time.

Here's a BIG HUG! [ ] I hope everything works out GREAT in your love life. And BOOBIE QUEST!

[teatowel]

So sorry. Hubby and I have been living in a similar situation. Glad your boyfriend and you can agree on terms. Be happy that you are not tied down with a marriage certificate. Hubby will not allow an uncontested divorce. So far he gets all the possessions, wants custody, won't let me move more than half an hour away...visitation if he doesn't get custody. So many rules. So much anger. LOL I'm getting my plastic surgery and degree before I start the divorce proceedings again, but the living arrangements until then suck. Happy new life to you. tea

[princess26]

Shaz,
I too am sorry. I don't know exactly what the situation between the two of u is, but there is only one bit of advice a gal like me can give ya.
I have always said this to myself, my friends...
You can stay miserable with someone or u can be miserable alone...Or in other words, I don't need anyone else to make me feel miserable, I can do that by myself.
I think that sometimes the best decision anyone can make is to realize when things aren't working out and put an end to it. Both parties are better off, instead of prolonging the inevitable. And sometimes some alone time can make u feel like a completely different and stronger person.
I wish u the best of luck...and try to see this as a new beginning, and not an ending!
Lots of hugs to u...
,
Kelly

[Chickydee]

awwwe Shaz here's a big HUG! Breakups aren't easy....not to mention the loneliness that is felt afterwards. Don't worry, Mr. Right will come along!

[mominator]

Hmmmmm....break up with b/f....GROW BOOBS! Coincidence!