omg!!

[pixiedust]

ill give it a go anything is worth a try i just want to be normal

[fawnmarie]

Honey - 30" is NOT "plenty" hips!


They'll be 34"-40" before you're done!

The average hip size for a healthy and FULLY developed woman of normal/average weight is 36" - whether she's 5'2" or 5'10". It's one of those reproductive advantages that we find so pesky and annoying.

Anyway - yeah - you've got a couple of years to go, and like I said, even if it looks like the other girls your age have bigger breasts - most of them are done growing and will not get any bigger. You have a couple of years to go yet, you're running on a bit slower of a schedule than average.

Yes - learn the method FIRST. Then dowse on how much sleep you need. Whether you need to eat more or more protein or dairy. Dowse over whether or not you need a multiple vitamin (though it won't hurt and can only help - so you may as well just take them.)

You may also want to dowse and see if 1) you will reach a C or D cup like your female relatives, and 2) how many more years it will take.

First - LEARN the method. It's really not that complicated once you try it.

Fawn

[pixiedust]

im going to have a go at it the next time i am alone in the house i think. I want to speed things up im tired of looking and feeling abnormal

[pixiedust]

sorry iv just got let this out cos its making me feel so low. why cant i be normal for once?? Why am i soo late in starting puberty?? what have i done? I feel soo crap and no one will tell me if i can anything about it!

[flatandgreen]

pixiedust said:

sorry iv just got let this out cos its making me feel so low. why cant i be normal for once?? Why am i soo late in starting puberty?? what have i done? I feel soo crap and no one will tell me if i can anything about it!

Hon, you haven't done anything "wrong." Bodies are just made to do the work they need to do. Your biological schedule isn't lined up so that you can compete with the other girls your age. It's just on a random schedule without taking the social, awkward side of it into account. It's not wrong or right and you didn't do anything to make it that way.

I know you feel abnormal, but you're not. One thing I'm learning is that everyone I talk to has their own idea of how they're "supposed" to be and no one feels they've lived up to that. For instance, my mom, who everyone at college says is hotter than most moms and who I look almost EXACTLY like, remembers people in high school making fun of her because she was so skinny and had no boobs and ever since she's thought she was really ugly. However, I look a lot like her and am doing well enough for myself socially. My guy friends ask me why their girlfriends are so whiny and worried about how they look because they think their girls are gorgeous. They tell me that confident women are the hottest. Honestly, girls that are a little odd looking but have unique interests and confidence and can laugh at themselves have EVERYONE interested in them, which worries me because I'm too d**n worried about my breasts or my thighs or how I'm not interesting enough that I think I'll never be confident enough to attract someone. It's kind of screwy, isn't it? The girls who could care less attract all kinds of folks and we other one's can't figure it out. My point is that even I have people who think I'm d**n hot and the more confident I am the more of them there are. My mom didn't figure this secret out until she was 45. For God's sake don't wait till then!

I'm sorry this was crazy rambling, but there's so much more to hotness than our breasts and you still have a while to go. I know that it seems like forever. I remember being glued to my computer when I was about 14 wondering when it would ever be safe for me to take B.E. herbs.

1) YOU DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WRONG!
2) YOU'RE HOT, BUT HAVEN'T NOTICED YET.
3) SCREW ANYONE WHO DOESN'T MAKE YOU FEEL HOT.

Looking back, school sucked. It's one of the least kind places I can remember in my life. College is much better. It's like we've realized that we can take the time to be kind to each other. But, please, be kind to yourself.

[pixiedust]

still though im stuck like this and everyone else has or is fginishing puberty and im only just begining. I hurts because everyone else around me has their figure and look great while im stuck looking stupida nd out of place. I hate being this way and it gets me really down im often in tears n stuff about it

[gigi]

pixiedust,
You're not abnormal; your genetics are unique as are everyone else's. The timetable for development is determined by your genetics. Focus on being as healthy as you can possibly be to take advantage of your impending growth. Look at it this way-you have the advantage of knowledge that others your age don't; use it. Instead of staying down, lift yourself up by focussing on attaining the best possible you physically, emotionally and intellectually. I also started late and felt that I'd missed all the action. Not so, I missed a lot of the pitfalls and by peaking later benefitted. There's a lot to be said for maturing emotionally first. Wait it out and invest in yourself.

[pixiedust]

im sorta tying to do that as im trying to eat healthier and i make sure i have plenty of dairy products and things. But all of that doesnt help me from feeling the way i do. I want to have my body and things i hate being a lte developer and i get soo frustrated and upset over it.

[fawnmarie]

Take advantage of the extra time.

Really.


Fawn

[Melo]

pixiedust said:

still though im stuck like this and everyone else has or is fginishing puberty and im only just begining. I hurts because everyone else around me has their figure and look great while im stuck looking stupida nd out of place. I hate being this way and it gets me really down im often in tears n stuff about it

Hi Pixiedust

Have you tried to discuss your breast development issues with a doctor? I know it can be difficult to bring this kind of topic to your doctor, but it might be worth getting some ideas from him or her.

When I was going through puberty, at first I assumed that I was going to develop breasts just as my peers did. Unfortunately, several years have passed since then, and now I'm almost 20 (in less than a month!). I went through my elementary school, junior high, and high school life with people making fun of my flat chest. I never really needed a bra for support, and when I was in grade 9 (about 14 or so), I started wearing a bra because it was a symbol of female development, and I didn't want to feel left out from the other girls. Then, in my second year of high school, I started wearing stuffed bras and padded bras. One day, the whole class found out that I was stuffing because when I walked, my breasts looked so stiff--now how embarrassing is that!

OK, I think I'm babbling. Anyway, I just wanted to let you know that I know exactly how you feel to be the only one in your age group who has not developed--sometimes I still cry about my flat chest and I wonder if I will ever develop. I grew up my whole life thinking that breasts finished growing at the age of 16 for most girls (excluding growth related to pregnancy); however, one of my doctors told me that for me, it can take up until the age of 21. I guess I have one more year to find out. I hope that you take care, and if you start crying again, remember that you are not alone, and that there are many of us who feel just the same way as you do about our breasts.

Cya!
~Melo~

[pixiedust]

nope i havtn talked things over with a doctor. Im too embarressed to mostly. I went to the doctors a few months ago about my peorids because they have been really painful, i had a female doctor but she wasnt the easiest to talk to and i felt she was judging me. I wasnt comfortable with it at all so im not too keen on seeing a doctor.

[pixiedust]

I feel soo crap now iv measured myself and im a 34aa! that smaller than i thought i was i thought i was at least an a! I dont know what to do..im really considering phoning the doctors and seeing if i can talk to the nurse about it but ill probably chicken out from being to embarressed. It hurts soo much and i cant stop crying and i know its stupid

[gigi]

Pixie,
I know you feel crappy now-so allow yourself to feel that way for no more than today. Give yourself a time limit. Tomorrow is another day to start over with a more positive attitude and then DO IT. It is your choice to be happy or miserable. It is also your choice to be patient or rash. Instant gratification is not reality but working towards a goal and succeeding is. Believe in yourself; you can do it.

[Wenonae]

pixiedust said:

I feel soo crap now iv measured myself and im a 34aa! that smaller than i thought i was i thought i was at least an a! I dont know what to do..im really considering phoning the doctors and seeing if i can talk to the nurse about it but ill probably chicken out from being to embarressed. It hurts soo much and i cant stop crying and i know its stupid

He, he. Yep, that's exactly why I started NBE, then got assured and motivated doing dowsing for NBE. I thought I was a A, winds up I was only 'AA'. It's why most of us are here. Whatcha waiting for? Dowse up a regimen, and you could be sitting pretty sooner than u think!

[pixiedust]

Iv sort of done dowsing, ijm not sure iv done it correctly or how often to check it but iv started to take a daily multi vitamin as it indicated in it that it could help but im not sure if it ment for breat growth or general health...well it will do me more good than harm. I might be getting my results checked as iv started anything apart from the multi vitamin